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A Jewish wedding ceremony typically involves several traditional rituals, including the signing of the ketubah (marriage contract), the exchange of rings, the chuppah (wedding canopy) ceremony, the recitation of the Seven Blessings (Sheva Brachot), and the breaking of a glass by the groom. These rituals hold deep significance in Jewish tradition and are beautiful expressions of love and commitment.

The chuppah, similar to a wedding arbor, symbolizes the couple's new home together. It represents the shelter and hospitality they will provide for each other and their guests. It has a long and rich history. In Talmudic times, the chuppah was provided by the groom's father for the wedding ceremony. By the 16th century the chuppah had evolved into 4 handheld branches. When a child was born, the family planted a tree, and its branches would be used years later for chuppah poles. The canopy was made from a garment, usually a tallit or a veil. Today, a chuppah is a fabric canopy attached to a 4- post temporary structure. It should be open on all four sides to symbolize a welcome home. Customarily, the canopy is beautiful yet modest, and may be any style, size, design or material a couple desires.

The breaking of the glass traditionally concludes the wedding ceremony and symbolizes the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem. It also serves as a reminder of the fragility of human relationships and the importance of treating each other with care and compassion.

Yes, there will be traditional Jewish dances such as the Hora, where guests form a circle and dance around the newlyweds, lifting them on chairs. Additionally, there may be blessings over wine and bread during the reception.

Yes, out of respect for Jewish tradition, we kindly ask that guests keep their shoulders covered during the ceremony with a cardigan, shawl, or wrap. You're welcome to remove these coverings during the reception.

A kippah, also known as a yarmulke, is a small cap traditionally worn by Jewish men. While non-Jewish guests don't need to wear a kippah, you will be offered one upon entering the ceremony space as a gesture of inclusion and respect for Jewish customs. Feel free to wear it if you feel comfortable, but it's not required. We've had custom ones made for our wedding so if you do wear it, it is yours to keep!

We kindly request that guests refrain from taking photographs during the ceremony itself, as it is a solemn and sacred moment. However, you're welcome to capture memories before and after the ceremony, and all throughout the reception!

If you have any additional questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to reach out. Brett: 314-761-7587, brettsmith27@gmail.com. Naomie: 727-777-3088, naomiescharf@gmail.com.